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“Paul Kaiser: Aspiring Biographer?”

I don’t know, it’s just something I came up with. I was doing an exercise to try rooting out personal interests and strengths that may have been buried over the past twenty years. A few different items came together and made me think of writing biographies.

What lead to this?

  • I love talking with new people, finding out what they’re about, digging down to find what they’re really about.
  • I love writing, period.
  • I love drama. I mean real life drama.
  • I love to explore, whether it’s new places or new perspectives.

Somehow, that all came together to say I might like writing biographies.

Biographies?

But I don’t want to write stuffy, boring biographies like:

“Here’s this rich guy who doesn’t have anything better to do than have a biography written about him.”

I also don’t want to write feature stories in the Sunday paper like:

“Here’s Joe Blow the Vice President of Pencil Pushing at Local Inc., stay in school, don’t do drugs, drink your milk and you can be like him.”

Personal histories, ah!

Friendly guy on Walnut St.

Friendly guy on Walnut St.

I would want to interview and write about people walking on the street. People with problems. People who have been through hell and abuse, or maybe are still going through it. People who aren’t sure where they are going, except to say they are walking North on Whatsit Ave. at this very moment.

Plausible?

But why would people want to be interviewed? Why would they take the time? Why would they possibly divulge any personal nuggets that could make such a personal biography interesting, revealing, and insightful?

I don’t know.

Try it?

Maybe I should just try it and see what happens. There’s definitely and element of “going out of your comfort zone” here. People might totally think I’m nuts or something. I can print up some little cards, with some sort of logo and short explanation of what I’m talking about. I suppose I could approach someone, ask them for an interview, hand them a card if they are like “what?!” and see if they change their mind or pass it along later.

Can’t hurt. Unless the cops get called on me for being a nuisance or something.

There could be a website for that.

I looked up domain names (my favorite pasttime, it seems) and wanted “untilnow.com,” but someone else already has that. She isn’t really using it yet, though. It sounds like she has the same idea in mind, but more along the lines of the Vice President of Pencil Pushing than the Abused Self-Medicator. I emailed her to ask what she was up to and if she had any advice, but she didn’t respond.

Rude.

UPDATE:

Okay, I’m working on it. I have a site now called “Not the Usual Story” at http://usualstory.com. I’m trying to formulate the best way to approach the kinds of people I want to interview, and we’ll see if this goes anywhere. It could be fun!

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2010: A prelude to awesomeness

Willow with Star Trek waffles

Willow eating Star Trek waffles

I’m sure Captain James Tiberius Kirk thinks it’s a prelude to invasion, but hey — he’s getting eaten, so who cares?

Willow ready to dig in to the Star Trek waffles

Willow ready to dig in to the Star Trek waffles

Star Trek Eggo waffles

Stacey got us Star Trek waffles

Lots of people complained about 2009, and probably not without reason. People lost jobs, got pay cuts, had nasty health problems, argued over health care, and were subjected to way too much information about “Twilight.”

Bethy playing Smash Bros Brawl

Bethy playing Smash Bros Brawl

I believe in positive thinking, though. Yes, I have read “The Secret,” “The 4-Hour Work Week…,” and many other such books. I “get it” about the law of attraction — think about what you want, instead of what you don’t want.

Gwen showing her magnet flower

Gwen made a flower out of fridge magnets

This year, I’m working on establishing some passive income streams, as well as gaining some autonomy in my daily grind.

I predict Gwen will really flower this year with her reading.

All the kids said this year will be awesome because of hanging out in the pool a lot. I guess I have some work cut out for me:

  1. Get a working prototype of the solar pool heater ready for the season.
  2. Get the pool up and functional as early as possible this year.

I think this year Leigh is going to get some time to take care of herself. Weaning Xander doesn’t appear to be going well, but sometime soon I feel there will be a breakthrough. Then, she will be able to start taking care of her health. I will help as much as possible. The woman has been breastfeeding and/or pregnant for like ten years… that has to take a toll.

It occurred to me this morning that it is January 1st, which means I need to really nail down the set design for “A Body of Water.” The challenge is mostly budget, in my mind. I’m still bummed about a nice end table / brass lamp pair I missed out on from Craigslist.

Anyway, here’s to 2010. I know it is going to be awesome. How about you?

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